ドン引き
Donbiki
どんびき
Don' (intensifier) + 'hiku' (to pull back / be turned off) — that moment when someone's words or actions are so unexpected or cringeworthy that you want to put distance between you and them. 'Hiku' alone carries the same meaning, but 'donbiki' is the extreme version. Especially common in dating and social media contexts.
Examples
初デートで割り勘どころか多く払わされてドン引きした
He didn't even go halves — I ended up paying more than him. Total donbiki.
Reporting back to a friend after a date
酔って上司の悪口言ってるのドン引きだわ
Watching people trash-talk their boss while drunk is a total donbiki.
Observing others' behavior at a drinking party
自慢話ばっかりする人にはドン引きする
People who do nothing but brag are a huge donbiki.
ドン引きされるの分かってて言うけど、虫が好きなんだよね
I know this'll get me donbiki'd, but I'm really into bugs.